Meet the Choose Team
WE WALK WITH YOU DURING YOUR ENTIRE RECOVERY PROCESS

Alana Gordon
Director, MFTI, CCPS, CSAT Candidate, Betrayal Trauma Coach, APSATS Trainee

Luke Gordon
Certified Addiction Recovery & Betrayal Trauma Coach, APSATS Trainee

Amie Woolsey
Certified Life Coach, CPC, ICF, ELI-MP, APSATS Trainee

Hali Roderick
TICC Trauma Informed Certified Coach, ICF Certified, APSATS Trainee, Certified* Betrayal Trauma and Addiction Recovery Coach

Sy Bee
Professional Coach and Men's Addiction Recovery Coach

Kim Brown
Certified* Trauma Informed & Betrayal Trauma Coach, Grief Educator, APSATS Trainee

Jess Kovic
Certified Life Coach, APSATS Trainee

Staci Somes
Licensed Professional Counselor LPC, NCC, Betrayal Trauma Coach, Divorce Coach, APSATS Trainee

Anthony Walker
Professional Coach and Men's Addiction Recovery Coach, APSATS Trainee

Stephanie Hamby
Relational Recovery Coach, MCLC, ERCEM-Candidate, APSATS Candidate

Matt Bigler
Professional Coach and Men's Addiction Recovery Coach, ICF Trainee
*When you select a certified coach with Choose Recovery, you can feel rest assured that your coach has worked hard to become knowledgeable and skilled to help you reach your goals. All of our certified coaches have invested over two hundred hours which include one on one supervision and multiple completed courses.
Meet the Choose Team
we walk with you during your entire recovery process

Alana Gordon
Director, Therapist Intern, Certified* BETRAYAL TRAUMA & ADDICTION RECOVERY Coach

Luke Gordon
Director, Certified* ADDICTION RECOVERY & BETRAYAL TRAUMA Coach

Amie Woolsey
Certified* BETRAYAL TRAUMA & divorce COACH, CPC, ELI-MP

Hali Roderick
CERTIFIED* ADDICTION RECOVERY & BETRAYAL TRAUMA COACH

Seth Bowman
Addiction Recovery Coach

Karen Broadhead
Certified* Life Coach

Kim Brown
BETRAYAL TRAUMA COACH &
Certified Grief educator

Sy Bee
ADDICTION RECOVERY COACH

Staci Somes
Licensed Professional Counselor LPC, NCC, Betrayal Trauma Coach, Divorce Coach

Shawn Delaney
Addiction Recovery Coach

Anthony Walker
ADDICTION RECOVERY COACH
*When you select a certified coach with Choose Recovery, you can feel rest assured that your coach has worked hard to become knowledgeable and skilled to help you reach your goals. All of our certified coaches have invested over two hundred hours which include one on one supervision and multiple completed courses.
Team Bios
Having walked the path of betrayal trauma as well as addiction, I am uniquely qualified to understand both sides of a couple’s struggle. I offer research-based treatment that teaches you the skills for sustained recovery and healing. If you’re willing to do the work between sessions, you can learn how to get your life back on track. You may feel stuck, but that doesn’t mean you are stuck.
As the co-owner and founder of Choose Recovery Services and on the board of directors for APSATS, I work as a Marriage and Family Therapist Intern and professionally trained Life Coach. I specialize in working with individuals and couples trying to heal from infidelity.
Specialties for individuals, couples, and families include modalities such as trauma informed, Brainspotting, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Cognitive Behavior Therapy, and part work. I also offer full disclosures, and 1, 3, and 5 day intensives.
To schedule an appointment, go to www.chooserecoveryservices.com or call 702-277-9145
Status: Accepting New Clients
Rate: $155 for a 50-minute session for individuals;
$175 for couples
Meet Luke, a men’s emotional health coach who specializes in overcoming unwanted sexual compulsive behaviors and in betrayal trauma. Luke has dedicated his career to helping men overcome their struggles with compulsive sexual behavior and build healthy, fulfilling relationships.
As the co-founder of Choose Recovery Services, he has served thousands of men in one on one and group settings. Luke is professionally trained and certified through iPEC, and he is trained in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model through APSATS. He has also completed online sexual addiction training through Patrick Carnes. With a combination of his professional training and his lived experiences in overcoming unwanted patterns, Luke has developed an effective approach to helping men overcome their behaviors and find peace.
Luke understands the unique challenges that men face when it comes to addressing their emotional health, especially in the context of sexual compulsivity. He provides a safe, non-judgmental space for men to explore their feelings and develop strategies for managing their compulsive behaviors.
Through one-on-one coaching sessions and in group training, Luke works with his clients to identify the root causes of their choices, develop healthy coping mechanisms, look at past traumas that may be impacting men today, and learn strategies for building healthy relationships. He also provides support for partners and spouses of men struggling with acting out, helping them to navigate the complexities of the healing process.
Luke is passionate about helping men find lasting healing and transformation. He believes that everyone deserves the opportunity to live a life free from the burden of compulsive acting out, and he is committed to helping his clients achieve that goal.
*Trained in full disclosures, Brain Spotting, APSATS Trainee
Status: Accepting new clients
Individual Session: $130/50 min
Couples Sessions: $160/50 min
Group Intake Fee: $130
Realizing how much work it takes to heal or navigate life with an addict can feel overwhelming and lonely. I am here to tell you that you are not alone. There is hope and healing available if you choose to invest in yourself.
I did not grow up thinking I would be the wife of an addict or that I would have a husband who was unfaithful and abusive. No one prepared me for that. So, when I discovered my husband’s infidelity and pornography addiction, the shock and fear were almost debilitating. I was confused–not knowing how I felt, or not really feeling at all. I was left wondering what to do and where to even begin. I was minimizing the abuse and making excuses for him and blaming myself. I remember believing that if he would just change and get better, then I would feel better. I now understand that feeling better is not contingent on his choices, and neither was my healing.
The decision to end an 18-year marriage was not easy. I worked hard for years trying to “fix” it. However, I knew that it was necessary in order for me to ever be whole again. Learning to trust myself, believe once again in my intuitions, and value my worth was priceless to me.
It was also difficult to leave an abusive relationship so I understand the fear and complexity around that.
I believe that divorce is never the first choice or desired outcome. However, I know that God desires us to be happy and healthy in every capacity. So, my focus will be the same for you. Helping you to see that you can create your own happiness and be healthy once again whether you are married or not because it IS possible!
I know that living life after divorce as a single mom can be the most frightening aspect of all. My experience and education during this time in my life brings great value to my coaching.
I have since remarried and am experiencing what a healthy marriage looks like for the first time in my life, which adds another element to my coaching tools. Together we have 7 children ranging from 24 to 7 years old. I know that because I invested in myself and in my own healing, life is better than I ever thought possible.
I bring with me key principles and tools that have blessed my life in my long journey and continue to bless me each day. I have found these same principles are implemented in WORTH and Choose Recovery Services, making it a joy and privilege to be affiliated with this group. I invite you to invest in yourself too!
*Betrayal Trauma *Abuse *Post-Divorce Trauma and Dating After Divorce *Trained in full disclosures *Dating/Engaged to Someone in Addiction * WORTH YSA Course 18yr-30yr *Believing In You Coaching Program *Healing From Abuse Coaching Program *Unhealthy Relationship Dynamic Assessment
Amie is a Certified Professional Coach CPC, ELI-MP, Brain Spotting, APSAT Trainee
Website: www.LifeCoachingWithAmie.com
Email: Amie@Chooserecoveryservices.com
Phone: 512-348-8331
Status: Accepting new clients
First 30 minute session $25
Rate: $150 for 50-minute session
Hali Roderick is a highly respected coach, known for her expertise in trauma-informed coaching and her dedication to helping individuals and families heal from the effects of betrayal trauma. As a Trauma Informed Certified Coach and an APSATS trainee, Hali brings a wealth of knowledge and experience to her work.
She has completed the Early Recovery Couples Empathy Model training and works with individuals and couples who are healing from the impacts of betrayal. In addition to her work with Choose Recovery, she works with her husband, Dr. Jeff Roderick, and their team at Pro Active Brain Health where they empower clients to bridge the gap between emotional healing and the physical healing of their brain.
Hali’s journey as a coach began after a personal experience with trauma. She discovered firsthand how difficult it can be to navigate the healing process without the right support and guidance. This experience inspired Hali to pursue a career as a coach, with a focus on helping others who are struggling with trauma-related issues.
Through her extensive training and years of experience, Hali has developed a unique approach to coaching that combines empathy, compassion, and evidence-based techniques to help her clients achieve lasting healing and growth. Her work is grounded in the latest research on trauma and its effects, and she is committed to staying up-to-date on the latest developments in the field.
Overall, Hali has a holistic approach focusing on the whole mind, body and spirit. She finds great fulfillment in walking beside those on their own journey of personal growth. She is starting a new podcast that will be launching in the next few weeks called Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal. Hali’s compassion, expertise, and dedication make her a valued resource for anyone who is seeking support and guidance on the journey to healing and growth.
Click HERE to schedule a Complimentary Consultation with Hali.
*ICF Certified
Status: Accepting new clients
$110 Individual session (50 min),
$60 Individual session (25 min),
$130 Couple session (60 min),
$195 Couple session (90 min)
Reach out to him if you want to work on overcoming and conquering addiction.
Contact at 3155sbee@gmail.com
Status: Accepting new clients
Sy Bee
Rate: $90/ 50-minute session
$45/25-minute session
Group Intake Fee: $110
Kim is a coach specializing in betrayal trauma, addiction, grief & loss. She has spent countless hours mentoring women individually and in group settings. She creates a safe space filled with empathy, compassion, and understanding free from all judgements and comparisons where healing is possible.
Kim will help you get curious about your emotional responses and behaviors to help guide you into awareness and self-trust where purposeful change happens.
“You are not alone. I have experienced my own betrayal and significant losses. I have walked this path before you. I have felt what you are feeling now and can be with you through the pain. I would consider it an honor to be invited into your story!” -Kim Brown
* Certified* Betrayal Trauma Coach
* Certified Grief Educator
* Trauma Informed Certified Coach
* APSATS Trainee
Email: KimberlyKirkBrown@gmail.com
Instagram: @kimbrown.coach
First 30-minute session FREE
One on One $110/50minutes
Couples Coaching $130/50 minutes
Family Coaching (3+people) $150/50 minutes
*Extended Sessions are billed at a pro-rated amount
Status: Accepting new clients
First 30-minute session FREE
One on One $75/50minutes
Couples Coaching $95/50 minutes
Family Coaching (3+people) $120/50 minutes
*Extended Sessions are billed at a pro-rated amount
As a certified life coach I aim to provide much-needed support in the most challenging of situations, the kind you never wanted to find yourself in.
My ultimate goal is to empower you to move forward and create the life you’ve always dreamed of. As a partner that has traversed my own journey through betrayal and recovery, I know that with the right support it’s possible. I’ve done it. I believe in your power to do so too. I know that while you’re staring in the face of betrayal and your whole life has been turned upside down it can seem impossible to see the light of a joyous future. It may seem impossible right now to think of anything else, but what has been broken and the pain that has been thrust upon you. But I promise no matter what you’ve been through, no matter what you desire and ultimately decide, there is hope. This now devastating circumstance will become a footnote in your epic memoir. By doing the work, committing to YOU, and attuning to your deep authenticity (that little voice that whispers “there must be more”) you can feel a joy in wholeness you may never have experienced before. You can become the hero of your own story.
I am drawn to this work to be of service to those affected by betrayal trauma and addiction as many came before to steer me on the path of recovery. My hope and mission is to use my unique experience to inspire others to find their own safety, healing and purpose. I have been trained in the Multidimensional Partner Trauma Model by leaders in the field of Betrayal Trauma Recovery through APSATS, Barbara Steffens, and Carol Jeurgensen Sheets. I would be honored to be a guide in your healing and transformation.
Contact me at jess@theexpresserie.com Follow me on instagram @jesscoaching
*Jess is an APSATS Trainee and Professional Certified Coach
Jess Kovic
Status: Accepting new clients
First 30-minute session is FREE
Rate: $100/hour
Hi! I’m Staci! I bet you never envisioned yourself in this place. I know I never did. It can be overwhelming and isolating. I want you to know something very important….you aren’t alone! There is hope and healing if you choose to work on YOU. This journey is a challenging one but not a hopeless one. It is incredibly brave to reach out, become vulnerable and ask for guidance. I would be honored to help you navigate your journey towards healing.
I never thought I would be the wife of an addict. I never thought my husband would be unfaithful to me. I never thoughts words like pornography addiction, sex addiction, gaslighting, abuse, and trauma would be part of my story. When I discovered the truth of my situation, I was debilitated. I was very confused, even felt crazy at times, and had no idea where to even begin. I kept thinking “If only I had been ENOUGH” this wouldn’t have happened to me.
I worked hard for many years to “fix” my marriage but when my husband retracted his committed to recovery, I knew I had to move on with my life in order to be whole again. Leaving my marriage of 18 years and worrying about how it would affect our children was the most terrifying thing I have ever done. I believe divorce isn’t the first choice or the desired outcome in a situation like this, but I know that God wants us to have joy and to be healthy. My main goal is to help you see that you can create happiness again wherever you are at.
I graduated with a MA in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and am a Licensed Professional Counselor LPC, NCC. I’ve spent countless hours studying betrayal, counseled 1200+ hours, and led many support and divorce support groups. For the last 3 years I have been working as a Certified Betrayal Trauma Coach. I’ve helped many women who are working hard on their marriages preparing for disclosure, those who are contemplating divorce, and those who are experiencing the aftermath of divorce. Whichever path you are on, I’d love to walk with you, support you, and help you reclaim safety and peace.
* Licensed Professional Counselor LPC, NCC,
* Betrayal Trauma Coach,
* Divorce Coach,
* APSATS Trainee
Contact me: staci@fireweedcoach.com
Status: Not currently accepting new clients
First 30 minute session FREE
Rate: $100/ 50-minute session9
As a Life Coach with a Ph.D. in Human Development and Family Science and author who has found lasting success through working my own recovery, I’m ready to help you begin your healing journey. I can help you learn effective strategies for self-mastery and overcoming addiction. I have helped many other men in my coaching and volunteering as a group mentor. In addition, I have years of volunteer experience as an addiction recovery facilitator in a 12-Step LDS Addiction Recovery group.
Starting in my teens, I struggled with sexual addiction where I felt alone and that I couldn’t talk with anyone about it. Feeling trapped and hopeless, I was ashamed and living a double life. I didn’t know where to turn. I reached a point where I couldn’t trust myself. Finally, I was willing to do whatever it took to feel and be whole again. You can find the same peace as well. I would be honored to walk with you on your recovery journey.
Outside of coaching, I’ve co-authored the book Lived Religion Conversion and Recovery: Negotiating of Self, the Social and the Sacred. I’ve also taught many college-level courses on family relations along with worked on countless research projects.
With my personal experience and professional knowledge, I can help you find your own path to recovery and freedom.
*APSATS Trainee
Contact me: chooserecoveryservices@gmail.com
Status: Accepting new clients
First 30-minute session is FREE
Rate: $90/50-min session
Group Intake Fee: $110
The effects of partner betrayal left me disoriented and confused, and my entire reality, what I knew to be accurate, quickly became a blurred fiction amid my grief and heart-wrenching pain; I desperately sought truth and healing.
Each life experience has enhanced my comprehension and capacity to empathize. My faith grew stronger during this crisis.
Through profound inner transformation, I have gained precious wisdom. It’s been an arduous journey to heal my heart and experience relational repair. In my personal experience, I tried to ignore, avoid and suppress my deep heartbreak and wounds, which manifested as over-achieving, over-functioning, and difficulty setting boundaries, leading me on a downhill slope of bitterness and resentment. However, choosing to seek healing was the best decision I ever made. Healing from partner betrayal was difficult, but it was a rewarding opportunity that has allowed me to move forward with a newfound sense of humility, gratitude, and profound insight—a personal journey of leaning into God’s love, connecting authentically with myself and others. Today, my marriage is on a truth foundation with an authentic intimacy and connection. My story is a testimony to the power of God’s grace, comfort, healing, and redemption. It is a beautiful reminder that individuals and relationships can experience redemption with each individual’s willingness and hard work. God can take what the enemy meant for evil and turn it for His glory. Every individual has a unique purpose in life, and one of my favorite aspects of fulfilling my purpose is supporting and guiding couples and partners. I am incredibly grateful for every couple and partner I work with.
I specialize in assisting couples and partners who have experienced partner betrayal due to sexual integrity issues. Together, we will work towards regaining mastery of your life while providing a secure environment for you to heal, process and gain clarity.
Stephanie is a coach who specializes in relational recovery. She assists couples and partners in healing and transforming their relationships after experiencing betrayal and sexual integrity issues. Stephanie utilizes her competence by coming alongside each individual and the couple as they navigate the confusion, grief, and wounds. Co-creating with the couple for relational repair through empathy and empowering the partner’s voice and choice. Stephanie’s professional credentials include Master Certified Life Coach, ERCEM trained, APSATS CPC-Candidate, Certified Professional Mentor™, and ICF member. Additionally, she has undergone training as a Full Disclosure Guide. She specializes in trauma-informed model, providing valuable resources for those seeking healing and personal growth.
Over the years, Stephanie has acquired extensive training and expertise in various areas, including Sexual Betrayal, Partner Trauma, Trauma and Crisis Response, Stress Management, Women’s Mental Health, Rational Emotive, Emotional Intelligence Coaching, Treating Affairs and Sexual Betrayal, Sexual Addiction, Compulsive Sexual Behavior, and Cognitive Emotional Processing.
Relational Recovery Coach
MCLC, ERCEM-CANDIDATE, APSATS CANDIDATE
stephanie@renewedrestored.com
Stephanie Hamby
Status: Accepting new clients
Rates: $110/hour
Couples $145/hour
Couples $215/90 minutes
Matt Bigler

Matt’s journey to coaching has been backed by his profound personal recovery experiences. He brings both passion and commitment to guiding individuals grappling with unwanted compulsive sexual behaviors. His distinctive insight and empathy enable him to genuinely comprehend the challenges and triumphs that accompany the journey of recovery. He can empathize with the deeply painful emotions of feeling trapped, disconnected, and lacking self-trust. His own journey encompasses numerous years of struggle, culminating in moments of self-harm and the brink of divorce. Ultimately, he chose a 90-day inpatient rehabilitation program, marking the beginning of his recovery foundation.
The path back to self-discovery, wholeness, and healing in his relationships demanded breaking through layers of unconscious core beliefs. This process unlocked boundless possibilities and transformed his life into one characterized by trust, love, and miraculous healing for his family.
In his coaching role, Matt brings profound compassion and empathy, creating a non-judgmental, accepting, and safe environment for his clients. By fostering awareness and offering fresh perspectives, he supports individuals in courageously exploring and liberating themselves from constraining beliefs. By unraveling the truth about their identity, clients can reconnect with their authentic selves. Matt exemplifies recovery through his daily actions and steers clients towards lives aligned with values like love, honesty, accountability, transparency, and vulnerability. These principles facilitated healing in his own marriage, and he provides distinctive tools that nurture partner healing through relational connection and intimacy.
As an International Coaching Federation (ICF) trainee, Matt has devoted himself to full-time professional coaching and received extensive training in sexual addiction and compulsive behaviors. His expertise includes over 2000 hours of coaching experience and participation in experiential training programs, furnishing him with the essential skills to guide individuals on transformative journeys. His coaching is enriched by an unwavering commitment to professional growth, practical experience, and a profound enthusiasm for aiding individuals in discovering hope, joy, peace, and love along their distinct paths, all while assisting them in uncovering their purpose within the intricate dynamic human experience.
Matt Bigler
Status: Accepting new clients
Rates: First 30 min session FREE
30 min session $65
50 min Session $110
Couples 60 min session $150
Natalie Bigler

I have always thought of myself as a strong person, one who would have a happy and successful life- but nothing could have prepared me for the indescribable pain and devastating impact that betrayal trauma would have in all areas of my life. I had never before experienced something so indescribable in any words and yet so pervasively saturating to every crevice of my existence. After years of unproductive efforts to help my spouse and find help- I felt broken. I continued to experience deceits and disclosures, emotional abuse, and crushing hopelessness- I felt utterly destroyed, hopeless, and helpless to stop the pain. Everything I loved felt lost and dead, including my sense of self and heart.
My path back to self-discovery, wholeness, and healing took courage I had not yet summoned to that point and that I could have never summoned alone. The layers of physical, emotional, psychological, and sexual betrayal pain felt like a thousand-foot-high wall- disconnecting me from my heart and my creative, life-bringing center- which was the source of my great pain. My heart had been shattered so many times I wondered if it was even possible to find all the scattered pieces, let alone put them back together. And I was tired, so very, very tired. Into my life came gentle coaches who had walked this path and knew how to guide me through it. I began to see glimpses of the person I thought was lost- but in a whole new form. I slowly, painfully re-learned to open myself to my own and others’ love and believe I was worth enough to value my healing and un-learn false beliefs about myself that were deeply wounding. Stepping into the most vulnerable spaces in my heart time after time proved to be the most deeply terrifying and rewarding thing I have ever risked. But it brought with it rewards of flecks of gold and pieces of me renewed and transformed- and I wanted to find them all.
I learned (and unlearned) who I was at my core being. I found within myself an invincible summer, and a grounded way of being that held me fast to a foundation of self-love, compassion, and truth. I was liberated, painstakingly, layer by layer. Experiencing my truth was the key to unlocking every new healing door. All I endured became just experiences to be felt and experienced, but could no longer mean something about me. I finally deeply felt what it meant to feel able to vulnerably connect with my heart, and, by doing so, trust myself again. I practiced a new way of seeing my partner- without judgment or expectation and with the same compassion I now had for myself. I also got to show up in my power, holding a sacred space for my truth with love. I felt hope for the first time in a very long time, and was surprised when that hope breathed new life into myself and my relationships.
As a board-certified coach trainee with hundreds of hours of experience coaching betrayal trauma clients, my mission as a coach is to bring you that hope. I would love to guide you to find your inner power that comes from a truthful way of Being- living in alignment with values that create authentic purpose and joy. With this power, you can create a life and future you will love- no matter what- and every choice you then make will be aligned with your highest purpose and healing. I would be honored to walk with you on that path and share deep wisdom and connection and all the love and support I have to give.
Natalie Bigler
Status: Accepting new clients
Rates: First 30 min session FREE
30 min session $65
50 min Session $110
Couples 60 min session $150
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