Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity

3-day Live intensive for Men

“What gets in the way of healing is being able to truly be seen by others. So we’re going to be talking a lot about authenticity. In the very beginning of the journey, a lot of people say the reason why I want to figure my stuff out is because I don’t want to lose connection to people that I love. But they start realizing that that work goes deeper than just getting honest. It goes to being authentic.”

What It's All About

Join Choose Recovery for the men’s integrity repair workshop Unmasked: The Path to Authentic Masculinity Intensive!

Are you ready to embark on a transformative journey towards authenticity and self-discovery? Introducing the Men’s Integrity Repair Intensive – a groundbreaking program designed to help men delve deep into understanding integrity, unveiling the layers of shame, and reclaiming their authentic selves.

Explore the Meaning of Integrity: Through thought-provoking discussions and guided exercises, you’ll gain a profound understanding of what integrity truly means and how it shapes every aspect of your life.

Unmask Your True Self: It’s time to remove the masks society has placed upon you and embrace your vulnerability. Learn to shed the layers of pretense and live with authenticity, allowing your true essence to shine through.

Understand Your Family of Origin: Dive into the depths of your family history and uncover the roots of your beliefs, behaviors, and patterns. By understanding your family dynamics, you’ll gain invaluable insights into your own story and journey towards healing.

Heal Inner Wounds: Men will have a safe space to confront and heal the wounds of your past. Through guided introspection and therapeutic techniques, you’ll learn to navigate your emotions with courage and compassion.

Prepare to Restore Relationships: As you gain clarity and emotional resilience, you’ll be equipped to mend fractured relationships and foster deeper connections with your loved ones. The journey towards integrity begins within, but its impact extends far beyond.

About the Intensive

For any man struggling with sexual behaviors that conflict with his values, the journey to healing can feel overwhelming and isolating. That’s why “Unmasked: The Path to Authentic Masculinity” offers a beacon of hope and transformation. At the intensive you’ll get:

Explore Root Causes: “Unmasked” provides a supportive environment for men to explore the underlying factors contributing to their sexual behaviors. Through introspective exercises and facilitated discussions, participants can gain insight into the emotional, psychological, and relational triggers driving their actions.

Embrace Vulnerability: Healing begins with vulnerability. By shedding the mask of shame and secrecy, men can courageously confront their struggles in a safe and non-judgmental space. “Unmasked” encourages participants to embrace vulnerability as a catalyst for healing and authentic connection with others.

Realign with Values: Problematic sexual behaviors often lead individuals to engage in behaviors that betray their core values and beliefs. This intensive empowers men to realign their actions with their authentic selves, rediscovering a sense of integrity and purpose. Through reflection and introspection, participants can identify and reaffirm their values, paving the way for lasting change.

Learn Coping Strategies: “Unmasked” equips men with practical coping strategies and tools to manage triggers, cravings, and urges. From mindfulness techniques to boundary-setting skills, participants gain the resources necessary to navigate the challenges of recovery with resilience and determination.

Forge Authentic Connections: Recovery from problematic sexual behaviors can feel like a lonely journey, but “Unmasked” fosters a sense of camaraderie and brotherhood among participants. Sharing experiences, challenges, and triumphs with like-minded individuals creates a supportive community where men can find understanding, encouragement, and accountability.

Cultivate Self-Compassion: “Unmasked” guides participants towards embracing their humanity, acknowledging past mistakes, and cultivating a sense of self-worth independent of their behaviors which helps move men through their shame. 

Attending “Unmasked: The Path to Authentic Masculinity” isn’t just about addressing the symptoms of problematic sexual behaviors; it’s about reclaiming your authentic self, living with congruency, and embodying integrity in every aspect of your life. Take the courageous step towards healing and transformation – your journey to authentic masculinity begins here.

Why Attend?

Personalized Support: Receive individualized attention and group support from our compassionate team of therapists and coaches.

Safe Environment: Rest assured that confidentiality and privacy are paramount at Choose Recovery. Our intensive is a safe space where you can feel heard, understood, and respected.

Transformational Experience: Embark on a journey of self-discovery, empowerment, and healing. Leave the intensive feeling rejuvenated, empowered, and equipped with valuable tools for continued recovery.


Go home with tools to practice in stepping into healthy masculinity, authenticity, and living in congruence. Tools used during the intensive include

Emotion-Focused Therapy: Through guided exercises and experiential activities, men can explore their emotional experiences, develop greater emotional awareness and regulation skills, and start to explore inner integrity to new depths. 

Relational Skills Building: Building healthy relationships is a fundamental aspect of recovery and personal growth. Therapeutic tools focused on communication skills, assertiveness training, and self awareness to help men heal relationships with those closest to them. 

Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies: Techniques can help men identify and challenge negative thought patterns and beliefs that contribute to destructive behaviors and deception with self and others

Values Clarification and Goal Setting: Clarifying personal values and setting meaningful goals can provide men with a sense of direction and purpose in their recovery journey. 

These therapeutic tools, integrated within the framework of “Unmasked: The Path to Authentic Masculinity,” offer men a holistic approach to healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. By embracing these tools and engaging in the intensive process, participants can embark on a transformative journey towards reclaiming their integrity, authenticity, and overall well-being.


In Spanish Fork, UT

Day 1 How Did I Get Here?
09:00    Welcome & Introductions
10:00    Understanding My Family of Origin
11:30    Break
11:45    What are Your Unique Maladaptive Coping Strategies
12:45    Break for lunch
01:45    How My Unique Maladaptive Coping Strategies Affect My Problematic Sexual Behavior
03:15    Break
03:30    How My Unique Maladaptive Coping Strategies Affect My Partner 
04:50    Wrap-Up and Key Takeaways
Day 2 Where am I at and Where Do I Want to Go?
09:00    Welcome Back & Check-ins
09:30    What is Vulnerability and Authenticity
10:30    How Does Shame Block Vulnerability and Authenticity
11:30    Break
11:45    Embracing Authenticity
12:45    Break for Lunch
01:45    Exploring the Meaning of Integrity
03:05    Break
03:20    Types of and Stages of Integrity
04:50    Wrap-Up and Key Takeaways
Day 3 Action Plan
08:00    Welcome Back
08:30    Where I am and Where I am Headed
09:30    Leaving the Mask, Showing up Authentically with Those I Love
10:30    Creating Your Action Plan
11:30    Wrap-Up and Key Takeaways

Coaches & Therapists

Image of Alana Gordon, Betrayal Trauma Coach and Master Life Coach Trainer

Alana Gordon

Director, MFTI, CCPS, CSAT Candidate, Betrayal Trauma Coach, APSATS Trainee, Brain Spotting Practitioner

Image of Luke Gordon, a Certified Master Life Coach and Trainer

Luke Gordon

Certified Addiction Recovery & Betrayal Trauma Coach, ICF Certified, APSATS Trainee, Brain Spotting Practitioner

Available Sessions

Don’t miss this opportunity to join us on this empowering journey of self-discovery and transformation. Take the first step towards a life of congruency, authenticity, and fulfillment. Sign up for the Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity Intensive today and redefine what it means to live with integrity.

Spaces are limited. Reserve your spot now!

Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity
July 17-19, 2024  in Spanish Fork, UT –
Led by Alana and Luke Gordon

Got Questions?

If you have questions about payment plans, please contact the office prior to registering: info@chooserecoveryservices.com | 702.277.9145 

If you have questions about the Intensive, please text or call 801.331.9288