ANNOUNCEMENTS

Resources, Announcements and Events

Choose Healing and Recovery Groups offer support for individuals and couples, and families wanting to heal from the effects of compulsive sexual behavior (previously known as sexual addiction) and/or infidelity. Resources listed here are to help you. Choose Recovery’s programs are listed up top, but underneath you’ll find resources for other group programs, classes, webinars, retreats, and conferences happening in the community. We believe that as we all work together to heal, we are creating healthier and whole communities!

New offerings

  • In Person Intensive: Unmasked: Paths to Authentic Masculinity
    • Receive individualized attention and group support from our compassionate team of therapists and coaches. Learn More
  • Healing Hearts
    • Healing Hearts Live Group is a supportive community for couples seeking healing after betrayal and infidelity, emphasizing the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy, offering practical tools, skills, and a nurturing community to navigate challenges and foster relational growth. Learn More
  • Help. Her. HEAL.
    • Men who participate in this course will get the opportunity to learn skills that will help them develop empathy. They will walk away with a greater understanding of how to rebuild lost trust and create intimacy. Led by Hali Roderick, Kim Brown, and Anthony Walker Register here
  • Choose Renewal
    • For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior. Our focus is on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out. This group aims to provide a safe, nurturing community where women can find support and guidance on their journey towards renewal.  Register here 
  • Leaning In
    •  This group is for women who have enough safety in the relationship that they feel ready to start leaning in again after betrayal. Register here
  • Resilient Teens
    • Ongoing Support group led by mother daughter duo Hali Roderick and Morgan Ellsworth.  This group is for teens whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage and need their own support.  Register here 
  • Adult Children United for Healing
    • Also led by Hali Roderick and Morgan Ellsworth, this ongoing support group is for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.  Register here

Upcoming Events

Choose 90

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors

Choose 180

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.

Choose Healing: Betrayal Trauma Support for Women

Women

This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation.

Choose To Be Podcast

A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.

Road to Recovery

Couples

Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.

Choose 90

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors

Choose 180

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.

Choose Betrayal Trauma Healing for Women

Women

This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation

Choose To Be Podcast

A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.

Road to Recovery

Couples

Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.

Choose 90

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors

Choose 180

Men

This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.

Choose Betrayal Trauma Healing for Women

Women

This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation

Choose To Be Podcast

A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.

Road to Recovery

Couples

Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.

Main Groups

Choose Podcasts

Speciality Choose Offerings

Couples Road to Recovery with Alana Gordon, MFTI, CCPS and Luke Gordon, Certified Men’s Health Coach 

    • Join Choose Recovery for a monthly webinar featuring Alana Gordon and Luke Gordon for a monthly couples discussion and a Q&A to follow. 
    • Last Sunday of each month at 7:30 pm MT. Register here
  • Healing Hearts
    • Healing Hearts Live Group is a supportive community for couples seeking healing after betrayal and infidelity, emphasizing the development of empathy, integrity, and authentic intimacy, offering practical tools, skills, and a nurturing community to navigate challenges and foster relational growth. Learn More
  • Help Her Heal
    • Help. Her. Heal. is a course modeled after Carol Jeurgensen Sheet’s work. Men who participate in this course will get the opportunity to learn skills that will help them develop empathy.  Join Hali Roderick or Dr Anthony Walker. Register here
  • Men’s Empowerment After Betrayal 
    • For men who have been betrayed by their spouse who have their own healing and recovery. Register here
  • Choose Renewal
    • For women recovering from unwanted sexual behavior. Our focus is on recovery and healing from patterns of sexual acting out. This group aims to provide a safe, nurturing community where women can find support and guidance on their journey towards renewal.  Register here 
  • Choosing to Stay After Infidelity Webinar
    • Free Q&A for individuals or couples who are Choosing to Stay After Infidelity.  Hali Roderick is offering a free monthly webinar for couples who are committed to staying together after infidelity. Couples in this situation face difficult challenges, but can also find unique rewards as they work toward healing.  Register here
  • Believing In You: Small Group Coaching 
    • The Believing In You program is for women in any situation who wants to be coached and learn tools and concepts to not only help her move forward after betrayal and or divorce but believe that she can. Join Amie Woosley for imitate, powerful support and growth. Register here
  • Leaning In: A group for women ready to lean more into their relationship
    • This group is for women who have enough safety in the relationship that they feel ready to start leaning in again after betrayal. Women who join this group may still have some triggers, but are not currently in a continually traumatized state or have had new trauma recently and want to gain tools, processing, and support around complexities of leaning in to the relationship after a betrayal.  Register here
  • Resilient Teens
    • Ongoing Support group led by mother daughter duo Hali Roderick and Morgan Ellsworth.  This group is for teens whose parents have experienced betrayal in their marriage and need their own support.  Register here 
  • Adult Children United for Healing
    • Also led by Hali Roderick and Morgan Ellsworth, this ongoing support group is for adult children of parents who have experienced betrayal in their marriage and need support navigating their own experience with betrayal.  Register here
  • Am I In An Abusive Relationship? 
    • Free self paced on-line guide. This self paced course offers basic concepts to consider as you assess your relationship. No one wants to really see their relationship as abusive, yet we don’t want to ignore reality. This course safely allows you to get more curious as you learn concepts around healthy vs unhealthy. Worksheets are provided to help your awareness around this sensitive yet critical topic. Register here. For more information and help in assessing your situation please reach out to Amie Woolsey for a consultation. If you are currently being physically abused, please reach out to someone safe immediately.  Access course here
  • Full Disclosures
    • Interested in laying a foundation of truth and honesty in  your relationship? Full disclosures benefit both the acting out partner as well as the betrayed. Learn more here
    • Looking to heal a relationship with your adult child who needs transparency and honesty? Learn more here

Community Offerings

  • Helpful Apps

Brain Buddy – Quit Porn Reboot

How We Feel – Learn to have more emotional awareness

Streaks – Track your daily healthy habits

Calm – Meditation and Anxiety/Stress Relief

Headspace – Meditation

Gottman Card Deck – Relationship Improvement

  • APSATS
    • APSATS – The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Betrayal offering training to professional coaches and therapists on best practices for treating betrayal trauma along with resources for betrayed partners. If your coach or therapist is not trained with APSATS, we encourage you to share this resource! 
  • Should I Stay or Should I Go?
    • This course is designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. Through reflective journal prompts, you’ll explore your feelings, fears, and the values that are most important to you. Learn More
  • Empowered Divorce Q&A
    • For those navigating divorce or are divorced, this is an opportunity to come ask questions and more importantly feel the support from other women and feel empowered through your divorce and learning to thrive. Led by coach Amie Woolsey. Register here
  • Intimacy Within
    • Self-paced course created by Amie Woolsey leading couples through the seven levels of intimacy to rebuild the broken relationship or entering a new relationship.  Register here
  • Divorce 101 Guide
    • Self-paced course created by Amie Woolsey helping you navigating divorce and the different phases from Awareness, Acceptance, and Agency to guide you to make a decision.  Learn more and register here
  • Dating from Within Workshop
    • Learn how to date yourself first after divorce and learn how to know if you are ready to start dating again. Register here
  • Bloom For Women free video courses
    • Wanting to know more about betrayal trauma? Access free video courses here
  • Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships 
  • Safe Space – A healing space for women
    • Feeling like you need a bit of extra support or clarity?  Curious about patterns that are taking place WITHIN your relationship that you are not sure how to interpret or respond to? Safe Space is an online resource for women who are experiencing, or who are healing from, destructive and confusing relationship dynamics. This video gives a quick introduction and walk-through of this resource: Welcome Video. Sign up here 
  • Returning to You Retreats
    • Monthly options for retreats. Healing, renewal, support. Learn more here
  • Private Individualized Intensives in Florida