ANNOUNCEMENTS
Resources, Announcements and Events
Choose Healing and Recovery Groups offer support for individuals and couples wanting to heal from the effects of compulsive sexual behavior and/or infidelity. Resources listed here are to help you. Choose Recovery’s programs are listed up top, but underneath you’ll find resources for other group programs, classes, webinars, retreats, and conferences happening in the community. We believe that as we all work together to heal, we are creating healthier and whole communities!

Highlights This Week
Upcoming Events
Choose 90
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors
Choose 180
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.
Choose Healing: Betrayal Trauma Support for Women
Women
This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation.
Choose To Be Podcast
A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.
Road to Recovery
Couples
Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.
Dating after Divorce
Women
3 days of 90 min Zoom sessions with Amie Woolsey and goes over how to prepare to have a healthy relationship, even if you aren’t ready yet
Choose 90
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors
Choose 180
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.
Choose Betrayal Trauma Healing for Women
Women
This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation
Choose To Be Podcast
A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.
Road to Recovery
Couples
Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.
Dating after Divorce
Women
3 days of 90 min Zoom sessions with Amie Woolsey and goes over how to prepare to have a healthy relationship, even if you aren’t ready yet
Choose 90
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon was created for men as a prerequisite to Choose 180, to help men overcome their addictions and behaviors
Choose 180
Men
This group led by Luke Gordon created to help men understand their emotions and how they affect unwanted behaviors.
Choose Betrayal Trauma Healing for Women
Women
This betrayal trauma support group is for women who have recently gone through betrayal to help them in those beginning stages. There is also a section for women going through divorce or separation
Choose To Be Podcast
A Podcast focused on women healing from infidelity, betrayal trauma, or from the sexual acting out of their spouse.
Road to Recovery
Couples
Join Alana and Luke Gordon for a monthly Q&A/discussion to explore and share tools to help you on your journey.

Main Groups
- Women’s
- Men’s
- Men’s Compulsive Sexual Acting Out Recovery: Choose 90 | Choose Recovery Services
- Men’s Emotional Management – Taking Healing To The Next Level: Choose 180 | Choose Recovery Services
- Men’s Empowerment after Betrayal – for the man who has been betrayed: Empowerment After Betrayal: Men’s Betrayal Trauma Group | Choose Recovery Services
- Both
- Infidelity Support: Choosing To Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal Q&A | Choose Recovery Services
- Couples Healing: Road to Recovery | Choose Recovery Services

Choose Podcasts

Choose To Be: Betrayal Trauma Healing
With Alana Gordon and Amie Woolsey

Choosing to Stay After Infidelity and Betrayal
With Hali Roderick

Speciality Choose Offerings
Couples Road to Recovery with Alana Gordon, MFTI, CCPS and Luke Gordon, Certified Men’s Health Coach
- Join Choose Recovery for a monthly webinar featuring Alana Gordon and Luke Gordon for a monthly couples discussion and a Q&A to follow.
- Last Sunday of each month at 7pm MT. Register here
- Help Her Heal
- Help. Her. Heal. is a course modeled after Carol Jeurgensen Sheet’s work. Men who participate in this course will get the opportunity to learn skills that will help them develop empathy. Join Hali Roderick for this 12 week course Starting January 2024. Register here
- Men’s Empowerment After Betrayal
- For men who have been betrayed by their spouse who have their own healing and recovery. Register here
- Choosing to Stay After Infidelity Webinar
- Free Q&A for individuals or couples who are Choosing to Stay After Infidelity. Hali Roderick is offering a free monthly webinar for couples who are committed to staying together after infidelity. Couples in this situation face difficult challenges, but can also find unique rewards as they work toward healing. Register here
- Believing In You: Small Group Coaching
- The Believing In You program is for women in any situation who wants to be coached and learn tools and concepts to not only help her move forward after betrayal and or divorce but believe that she can. Join Amie Woosley for imitate, powerful support and growth. Register here
- Leaning In: A group for women ready to lean more into their relationship
- This group is for women who have enough safety in the relationship that they feel ready to start leaning in again after betrayal. This is for women who
- Have spouses actively and successfully working recovery
- Are ready to work on some relational healing
- May still have some triggers, but are not currently in a continually traumatized state or have had new trauma recently
- Want to gain tools, processing, and support around complexities of leaning in to the relationship after a betrayal
- For more information click here
- This group is for women who have enough safety in the relationship that they feel ready to start leaning in again after betrayal. This is for women who
- Should I Stay or Should I Go?
- A coaching class to help women navigate the space of trying to figure out if she should stay or go in her relationship. First Thursday of every month at 9am MT. Free! Should I Stay or Should I Go | Choose Recovery Services
- Empowered Divorce Q&A
- For those navigating divorce or are divorced, this is an opportunity to come ask questions and more importantly feel the support from other women and feel empowered through your divorce and learning to thrive. Held the first Thursday of every month @5:00pm PT. Lead by coach Amie Woolsey. Register here
- Young Single Adult Skills Around Dating, Boundaries, and Knowing Yourself
- A class for young adults to learn what a healthy relationship looks and feels like along with tools like recognizing red flags, boundaries, how to have sensitive conversations, having a voice, pornography is today’s dating world, and more. Great for those single, dating, or engaged. Lead by Amie Woolsey. $30 a week, 12 week course. Register here
- Am I In An Abusive Relationship?
- Free self paced on-line guide. This self paced course offers basic concepts to consider as you assess your relationship. No one wants to really see their relationship as abusive, yet we don’t want to ignore reality. This course safely allows you to get more curious as you learn concepts around healthy vs unhealthy. Worksheets are provided to help your awareness around this sensitive yet critical topic. Register here. For more information and help in assessing your situation please reach out to Amie Woolsey for a consultation. If you are currently being physically abused, please reach out to someone safe immediately. Access course here
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Community Offerings
- Helpful Apps
Helpful Podcasts
- APSATS
- APSATS – The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Betrayal offering training to professional coaches and therapists on best practices for treating betrayal trauma along with resources for betrayed partners. If your coach or therapist is not trained with APSATS, we encourage you to share this resource!
- APSATS Conference
- Choose Recovery Services is excited to extend a personal invitation to you to Amie Woolsey, Alana Gordon, and other professionals at the upcoming APSATS Conference on January 31st, 2024.
- There will be breakout sessions for those who are working on relational repair, as well for those who are separated or divorced. You’ll be able to listen to Amie present with Dan Drake on boundaries through and post divorce, and you’ll see Alana moderating many of the sessions!
- Date: January 31st, 2024 8am – 5:30pm MT
- To sign up, you can go to https://www.apsats.org/
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- Bayan Group Intensives
- Six week addiction intensives, partner intensives, sexual compulsive intensives and more. Learn more here
- Bloom For Women free video courses
- Wanting to know more about betrayal trauma? Access free video courses here
- Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships
- Gaslighting 12 Week Course w/Gaslighting Coach Sarah Morales
- Safe Space – A healing space for women
- Feeling like you need a bit of extra support or clarity? Curious about patterns that are taking place WITHIN your relationship that you are not sure how to interpret or respond to? Safe Space is an online resource for women who are experiencing, or who are healing from, destructive and confusing relationship dynamics. This video gives a quick introduction and walk-through of this resource: Welcome Video. Sign up here
- Returning to You Retreats
- Monthly options for retreats. Healing, renewal, support. Learn more here
- Private Individualized Intensives in Florida
- Learn more here
- Rio Retreat Center @ The Meadows