Resources, Announcements and Events

Choose Healing and Recovery Groups offer support for individuals and couples wanting to heal from the effects of compulsive sexual behavior and/or infidelity. Resources listed here are to help you. Choose Recovery’s programs are listed up top, but underneath you’ll find resources for other group programs, classes, webinars, retreats, and conferences happening in the community. We believe that as we all work together to heal, we are creating healthier and whole communities!

Highlights This Week

  • Help. Her. HEAL. Register here
  • Healing Hearts, couple’s course. Register here

Upcoming Events

Main Groups

Choose Podcasts

Speciality Choose Offerings

Couples Road to Recovery with Alana Gordon, MFTI, CCPS and Luke Gordon, Certified Men’s Health Coach 

    • Join Choose Recovery for a monthly webinar featuring Alana Gordon and Luke Gordon for a monthly couples discussion and a Q&A to follow. 
    • Last Sunday of each month at 7pm MT. Register here
  • Help Her Heal
    • Help. Her. Heal. is a course modeled after Carol Jeurgensen Sheet’s work. Men who participate in this course will get the opportunity to learn skills that will help them develop empathy.  Join Hali Roderick for this 12 week course Starting January 2024. Register here
  • Men’s Empowerment After Betrayal 
    • For men who have been betrayed by their spouse who have their own healing and recovery. Register here
  • Choosing to Stay After Infidelity Webinar
    • Free Q&A for individuals or couples who are Choosing to Stay After Infidelity.  Hali Roderick is offering a free monthly webinar for couples who are committed to staying together after infidelity. Couples in this situation face difficult challenges, but can also find unique rewards as they work toward healing.  Register here
  •  Believing In You: Small Group Coaching 
    • The Believing In You program is for women in any situation who wants to be coached and learn tools and concepts to not only help her move forward after betrayal and or divorce but believe that she can. Join Amie Woosley for imitate, powerful support and growth. Register here
  • Leaning In: A group for women ready to lean more into their relationship
    • This group is for women who have enough safety in the relationship that they feel ready to start leaning in again after betrayal. This is for women who
      • Have spouses actively and successfully working recovery
      • Are ready to work on some relational healing
      • May still have some triggers, but are not currently in a continually traumatized state or have had new trauma recently
      • Want to gain tools, processing, and support around complexities of leaning in to the relationship after a betrayal
      • For more information click here
  • Should I Stay or Should I Go? 
  • Empowered Divorce Q&A
    • For those navigating divorce or are divorced, this is an opportunity to come ask questions and more importantly feel the support from other women and feel empowered through your divorce and learning to thrive. Held the first Thursday of every month @5:00pm PT. Lead by coach Amie Woolsey. Register here
  • Young Single Adult Skills Around Dating, Boundaries, and Knowing Yourself 
    • A class for young adults to learn what a healthy relationship looks and feels like along with tools like recognizing red flags, boundaries, how to have sensitive conversations, having a voice, pornography is today’s dating world, and more. Great for those single, dating, or engaged. Lead by Amie Woolsey. $30 a week, 12 week course. Register here
  • Am I In An Abusive Relationship? 
    • Free self paced on-line guide. This self paced course offers basic concepts to consider as you assess your relationship. No one wants to really see their relationship as abusive, yet we don’t want to ignore reality. This course safely allows you to get more curious as you learn concepts around healthy vs unhealthy. Worksheets are provided to help your awareness around this sensitive yet critical topic. Register here. For more information and help in assessing your situation please reach out to Amie Woolsey for a consultation. If you are currently being physically abused, please reach out to someone safe immediately.  Access course here
  • Full Disclosures
    • Interested in laying a foundation of truth and honesty in  your relationship? Full disclosures benefit both the acting out partner as well as the betrayed. Learn more here
    • Looking to heal a relationship with your adult child who needs transparency and honesty? Learn more her

Community Offerings

  • Helpful Apps

Brain Buddy – Quit Porn Reboot

How We Feel – Learn to have more emotional awareness

Streaks – Track your daily healthy habits

Calm – Meditation and Anxiety/Stress Relief

Headspace – Meditation

Gottman Card Deck – Relationship Improvement

Helpful Podcasts

    • APSATS – The Association of Partners of Sex Addicts Trauma Betrayal offering training to professional coaches and therapists on best practices for treating betrayal trauma along with resources for betrayed partners. If your coach or therapist is not trained with APSATS, we encourage you to share this resource! 
  • APSATS Conference
    • Choose Recovery Services is excited to extend a personal invitation to you to Amie Woolsey, Alana Gordon, and other professionals at the upcoming APSATS Conference on January 31st, 2024.
    • There will be breakout sessions for those who are working on relational repair, as well for those who are separated or divorced. You’ll be able to listen to Amie present with Dan Drake on boundaries through and post divorce, and you’ll see Alana moderating many of the sessions!
    • Date: January 31st, 2024 8am – 5:30pm MT
    • To sign up, you can go to
  • Bayan Group Intensives
    • Six week addiction intensives, partner intensives, sexual compulsive intensives and more. Learn more here
  • Bloom For Women free video courses
    • Wanting to know more about betrayal trauma? Access free video courses here
  • Conversations on Sex, Addiction, and Relationships 
  • Safe Space – A healing space for women
    • Feeling like you need a bit of extra support or clarity?  Curious about patterns that are taking place WITHIN your relationship that you are not sure how to interpret or respond to? Safe Space is an online resource for women who are experiencing, or who are healing from, destructive and confusing relationship dynamics. This video gives a quick introduction and walk-through of this resource: Welcome Video. Sign up here 
  • Returning to You Retreats
    • Monthly options for retreats. Healing, renewal, support. Learn more here
  • Private Individualized Intensives in Florida
  • Rio Retreat Center @ The Meadows
    • Variety of workshops and retreats for women, men, and couples to heal childhood wounds, betrayal trauma, compulsive sexual behaviors, and more. Learn more here
  • Two-Day Summit @ The Embody Lab
      • The Somatic Trauma Healing Summit
      • Learn more here